The Other Claire @ FedByClaire

I help late-diagnosed women who already know what to do but can't make themselves do it find the first usable rung out of overwhelm and build a life that can actually hold

I'm Claire, founder of FedbyClaire. I help late-discovered neurodivergent, high-capacity women rebuild lives that can actually hold them. This is for women who look capable on paper but privately feel like their whole operating system is held together with coffee, rage, shame, and one mysteriously clean bra. Often ADHD, autistic, peri-menopausal, burned out, or all of the above. They can see patterns everywhere and solve everyone else's problems, then somehow still can't reliably feed themselves lunch or answer an email. I came to this through my own collapse and rebuild: late diagnosis, peri-menopause, burnout, and the deeply annoying discovery that insight alone does not make you functional. I don't think people like us are low-capacity or chaotic. I think we're badly scaffolded. The work is building enough rhythm, honesty, support, and self-trust that you can stop shrinking to survive your own life.